What if you didn’t want to be a brand, but just a person who overthinks their captions? Ten years ago, ‘public image’ belonged to celebrities, politicians, and people whose lives depended on red carpets and press releases. These days, the spotlight has widened. The moment you open an Instagram account or post something on LinkedIn, you step into the world of personal branding — sometimes without even realizing it, without even willing to. Managing how we’re seen online is a phenomenon today, and it can feel like a full-time job. So, no wonder so many of us find it exhausting. That’s where perception anxiety starts to creep in. That lowkey panic you feel when you…
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Early Career Truths I Would Tell You If I Didn’t Care About Your Feelings
Most of us step into our careers carrying a mixed bag of expectations. There’s the naive optimism we’re fed in college — that our degrees will matter, that hard work will speak for itself, that if we “just follow our passion,” the path ahead will be meaningful and rewarding. Then there’s the muffled fear that everyone else has it figured out while we’re still Googling “how to write this email in a professional way.” The truth is that early careers are messy. They’re political, unfair, and often discouraging in ways no placement talk or graduation speech will warn you about. You don’t walk into your first job as a “future leader.” You…
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You’re Not Tired — You’re Just Living Someone Else’s Dream
And Why Chasing Their Version of Happy is Making You Miserable. No wonder you’re tired — you’re chasing the wrong dream. Ever catch yourself out of breath, but you’re not even sure why? You never signed up for this invisible race. There was no starting whistle. But suddenly, you’re sprinting — chasing after lifestyles, career wins, perfect photos, relationship milestones, like your whole worth depends on keeping up. From LinkedIn “thought leaders” to Instagram-perfect girlbosses to even your own friends who seem to have it all figured out — everyone’s kind of faking it. And here you are, trying to keep up in a game that doesn’t even feel like yours. You’re exhausted, but it’s not just…
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Why My Brain Can’t Decide On Dinner but Buys Books in 5 Seconds?
There are two kinds of people in this world. The ones who scroll on a food delivery app for an hour, analyzing every cuisine, calorie count, delivery time, and review before realizing their stomach has already given up on them. And the ones who waltz into a bookstore, pick up a random book from the front shelf, and head straight to billing without batting an eyelid. Unfortunately, sometimes I am both. I’ve been that person staring at my phone, toggling between biryani and pasta as if I was responsible for national peace, only to end up with a cup of tea. Yes, my brain tapped out before my stomach did.…
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What the City Forgot: Lessons in Living from India’s Indigenous Cultures.
Why we lose ourselves in WiFi, and find ourselves in the mountains. We, the millennials and Gen Zs of the metro cities, scrolling through reels on mental health while gulping cold coffee and juggling multiple internet tabs. Somewhere between grocery home deliveries and soft boards that look straight out of a murder mystery, we’ve turned life into a never-ending to-do list. Meanwhile, India’s indigenous communities, often dismissed as “backward,” are out there living lives of balance, groundedness and joy that most of us only dream about during spa sessions that we schedule on Urban Company. This isn’t about romanticising rural poverty or denying progress. This is about acknowledging the gaps…
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Why You Should Stop Asking AI to Disagree With You.
How our obsession with AI tools have unplugged a deeper issue: mental laziness. Lately, I’ve seen a lot of people say that ChatGPT should disagree with you more — that it should challenge your opinions. There’s been a noticeable shift in how people want to use AI tools today. The hype used to be all about how helpful these tools could be. But now? People are asking for something more: AI that disagrees with them. AI that doesn’t affirm their beliefs. AI that calls out their logic, and doesn’t automatically praise or validate their inputs. And I get where that’s coming from. But here’s the thing: did we pause to consider whether we…
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Don’t Scroll, Please Stay [Poetry – Note]
In this world wired to keep us connected, We’ve never felt more forgotten. Explore pages, reels, and feeds, Swiping right across stories, Leaving heart reactions in red, But so much still left unsaid. Once, eye contact used to mean something, Now, we look, we scroll, But we rarely see. We exist in grids, In captions, Ending conversations with laughing emojis, Even when nothing’s really funny. We’re in each other’s network, But not in each other’s lives. Our touch now replaced by a tap, Our eyes awaiting a ping, Some part of us still hoping, That someone will stop, will stay, will look. Will see more than an aesthetic feed. Walking…