There’s a short film on YouTube called NAPO. It’s only a few minutes long, but it really hit me. There are no dialogues and no dramatic background music throughout the movie. Just some soothing music and an old man with fading memories, a grandson with a pencil, and a quiet kind of love that sneaks up on you. By the end of the short film, I was warm in my heart, thinking about the people and moments we sometimes take for granted.
Here’s what stayed with me:
- Creativity Speaks Louder Than Words
The little boy doesn’t force his grandfather to “remember.” Instead, he draws. He turns old photos into sketches, and suddenly, memories start to come back. It’s a gentle reminder that creativity, whether it’s doodling, journaling, or making reels, can connect us in ways words sometimes cannot.
2. Patience Is Love in Disguise
Watching the boy sit with his grandfather reminded me that patience isn’t just about waiting; it’s an act of love. There’s no rushing or frustration, just being present until recognition slowly flickers across his grandfather’s face. In our fast-scroll world, that really resonated. Maybe love does look like slowing down.
3. Dementia Doesn’t Lower Your Worth
The film doesn’t shy away from showing memory loss, but it treats it with dignity. The grandfather remains valued, loved, and full of stories; even if he can’t tell them himself anymore. It made me reflect on how often we measure people based on what they can do instead of who they are.
4. The Power of Small Gestures
I know, I know. A sketchbook isn’t a cure for dementia. But those small drawings brought moments of joy and connection. Maybe that’s the whole point. Sometimes it’s not about solving big problems, it’s about choosing small acts that make someone feel seen.
5. Memories Are Meant to Be Shared
The old photos in NAPO aren’t just artifacts; they’re stories. John’s sketches turn them into something new, something that belongs to both of him and his grandfather. That made me feel heavy because memories aren’t just personal, they’re a symbol of togetherness. They are how we pass love, laughter, and legacy down the line.
Why It Stayed With Me:
I think NAPO resonated with me because it wasn’t really about dementia, it was about connection. It showed me how love changes, how creativity heals, and how even in the hardest moments, beauty finds a way to shine through. So yes, I welled up. But it wasn’t sadness, it was gratitude. Gratitude for the people I’ve loved, the stories I carry with me today, and the small ways in which we can keep memories alive, even as time tries to blur them.
If you have ten minutes and a tissue nearby, go watch NAPO!
